On reality.
It still seems worse to me when that stuff is in person and it happens far more often than decent Utah fans recognize.
Not all of them are oblivious.
I remember about 10 years ago when one of my sons invited two Utah fan friends to go to the BYU-Utah game with us.
Both of the fathers told me separately that they could never return the favor because they couldn't promise they could keep my son safe at a Utah game wearing a BYU shirt