I didn't comment on the original thread, but I had no idea FLDS boys never get

Jul 4, 2024
10:36:53am

paulb Intervention Needed

to talk to their mom's again after they hit 18. Dads too? It just moms? Any links on this? I'm lazy obviously as I'd never even heard of it before.

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I'm at a total loss here. What am I missing? A mom never being allowed to speak to her son after he turns 18 seems to be

HarlemCoug Political Junky

Jul 4, 10:19am

I think it's healthy. Gives em some backbone. Better than sitting at home in

Nikomedes

Jul 4, 10:29am

There's a difference between encouraging independence and disowning children.

kccougar

Jul 4, 10:31am

What? The mom is never allowed to speak to her son again. You're ok with that? Even if the son turns into a thriving

HarlemCoug

Jul 4, 10:31am

I bet that's more a guideline than an actual commandment

Nikomedes

Jul 4, 10:32am

What? Have you not seen report after report about this? What are you even talking about? These people are monsters.

HarlemCoug

Jul 4, 10:33am

I don't really read that kind of stuff. But maybe I'd change my mind if I did

Nikomedes

Jul 4, 10:36am

That's assuming your allegations are true, of course. Which I am not yet

Nikomedes

Jul 4, 10:45am

You've never come across the term 'Lost boys'? It's a real thing in southern Utah.

kccougar

Jul 4, 10:52am

Watch Peter Santenello's videos on this. That's a good starting point. This isn't a hidden secret. If one man has 20

HarlemCoug

Jul 4, 10:54am

It is not healthy to cut someone off from their community in order to protect reproductive resources for the select few.

kccougar

Jul 4, 10:33am

I didn't comment on the original thread, but I had no idea FLDS boys never get

paulb

Jul 4, 10:36am

Did some more research, and yeah, I see your point. Doesn't really matter if

paulb

Jul 4, 11:00am

I am very skeptical that "most boys" never speak to their mothers after age 18

TheHop

Jul 4, 10:39am

It does happen to most boys in the active FLDS community. The founder of

NarfUte

Jul 4, 11:00am

RE: It does happen to most boys in the active FLDS community. The founder of

Lavella

Jul 4, 1:59pm

Watch Peter Santenello on Youtube. Or research "lost boys". This isn't some hidden secret.

HarlemCoug

Jul 4, 11:00am

I'm pretty sure you are thinking the Jeff's sect. There are many and most are not like his

darkcoug

Jul 4, 11:22am

Jeff’s sect is the main FLDS community - the Kingston sect (latter day church of

NarfUte

Jul 4, 11:45am

I've read your post and comments on linked thread; you seem utterly dismayed

Bandersnatch

Jul 4, 11:31am

I've met some fine FLDS people. However, they are called Lost Boys for a reason.

shakarocks

Jul 4, 12:22pm

Yeah I’ve never heard the thing about not speaking to their mothers and I’m

bigbossbyu

Jul 4, 1:59pm

Living in St. George is evidence of nothing.

shakarocks

Jul 4, 3:41pm

This is the first time I’ve heard of this. What’s the rationale for doing it?

UNLVcougar

Jul 4, 11:39am

Removing the competition.

DwigtA2RM

Jul 4, 11:45am

There are plenty of members who have written off their kids because they are gay

Jstak17

Jul 4, 12:29pm

“Plenty” is way overstating it. This gets exaggerated all the time.

UNLVcougar

Jul 4, 12:40pm

Ok, I don’t know how many. And I know it happens outside the church as well.

Jstak17

Jul 4, 12:48pm

I agree that it should never happened. I just think it’s been overstated in the

UNLVcougar

Jul 4, 2:15pm

How come "most boys" being shunned by flds is fine...

TheHop

Jul 4, 3:51pm

I don’t think I’ve ever met an FLDS person in my life. I can’t comment on

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