out of you by being "mean" to you and its usually unsuccessful.....but I definitely always mean it in jest, just trying to get a funny or "ignored!" response from you.
Now it might be a little less fun being mean to you but oh don't worry I'll still be mean!
Seriously though health problems can suck to deal with but you seem to have a good life attitude and humor. I hope at least some of my "mean" posts have made you laugh sometimes.