None of those are abuse.

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Dec 20, 2024
6:47:18pm

HouseDeeking Truly Addicted User

Why didn't you just go sit somewhere else? Talk about being a bad fan.

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HouseDeeking

Previous username: UberDeek
Bio page: HouseDeeking
Joined: Feb 27, 2011
Last login: Dec 21, 2024
Total posts: 60,185 (15,882 FO)

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Got a family banned from attending games at our high school. Well, they got

Chasicle

Dec 20, 12:25pm

No offense, but it sounds like you are "that parent" now. Without you there would have been

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 12:29pm

Nah people like that who are getting on the refs need to be pushed back against.

kotacoug

Dec 20, 12:32pm

Opposing teams fans are 100% not the people to do that. Sorry I disagree with your premise.

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 12:35pm

I disagree. Everyone, including even if it’s someone on your on side, needs to

kotacoug

Dec 20, 12:37pm

So in your opinion, the bigger problem is fans yelling at the refs as opposed to picking fights in the

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 12:39pm

Yes. And it’s not picking fights by standing up to them. If they react in that

Chasicle

Dec 20, 12:50pm

A grandma makes a comment about roller derby and you throw it back in a grandma's face

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 12:52pm

Found the insufferable fan sympathizer. Just say you’re worse than these parents

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:03pm

Is this your response? When you resort to trying to mock (like in your story) you might

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 1:13pm

I like how you’re so focused on that part of the story. How about focus on the

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:24pm

You mean the part of the story that started the fight? Why do you think I focus on that?

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 1:31pm

You going to be ok? Are you able to focus on the problem of youth sports and

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:43pm

Again another post that ignores what is going on and tries to throw attention away

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 1:52pm

Projection much?

Chasicle

Dec 20, 2:24pm

Projection? LOL.

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 2:28pm

No one said I was picking fights. if a fan was being an yewt at a youth sporting

kotacoug

Dec 20, 3:08pm

for freshman girl's basketball where the girls are still learning basic aspects

cwilke1

Dec 20, 12:39pm

And the first polite interaction about saying maybe we should not take it so seriously

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 12:48pm

The only one who wanted to fight was the idiot parent who couldn’t help himself

Chasicle

Dec 20, 12:52pm

You just wanted to make fun of the grandma

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 12:53pm

Nah. The grandma was right there whining about the calls with the rest.

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:03pm

Sorry I was taught to respect my elders, too bad you were not taught manners.

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 1:07pm

lol. You really are something. It’s clear you’re one of those parents who can’t

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:25pm

Clearly, I think you acted poorly so I must be horrible to refs!

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 1:36pm

We can clearly see it did. Those abusive fans are banned and will either realize

Chasicle

Dec 20, 2:23pm

Refs know what they are signing up for.

CougarGuy84

Dec 20, 12:38pm

This is a poor excuse for bad behavior.

RobAdams

Dec 20, 12:57pm

We’re talking about volunteers or guys making like $20 a game. There is

kotacoug

Dec 20, 3:10pm

They make more than that. lol. Volunteers? This is high school basketball. No need to berate them but also no need to

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 9:41pm

lol… I’m sorry not $20…… FORTY a game. Haha point is the same

kotacoug

Dec 20, 10:16pm

$40 for an hour and 15 mins is pretty good.

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 11:20pm

Not with the abuse they get.

Chasicle

Dec 20, 11:54pm

Where do you think the newest/least experienced b-ball refs are?

stansburycoug

Dec 20, 10:28pm

The outcome I was striving for was respect from parents. Is that a bad thing?

Chasicle

Dec 20, 12:49pm

RE: The outcome I was striving for was respect from parents. Is that a bad thing?

Coug

Dec 20, 12:54pm

You manned up and mocked a grandma. Congratulations. You caused a scene at a

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 12:58pm

Nah. Mocking her would be getting in her face and doing it. She implied our

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:28pm

What. A. TERRIBLE. Take.

Mufasa

Dec 20, 1:47pm

He made a mistake, but constant complaining about officals is obnoxious

Belboz

Dec 20, 1:59pm

I agree with everything you said. The difference is that instead of thinking he made a mistake, he quite

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 2:20pm

No. I came to CB to show people that we should stand up to abusive parents. Even

Chasicle

Dec 20, 2:25pm

Funny as I have seen some very effective posts doing that. It would have gone something like:

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 2:35pm

You’re too invested in this. Be a better fan.

Chasicle

Dec 20, 3:11pm

You be a better person and just mind your own business. Next time get up and move.

Coug

Dec 20, 5:41pm

Nope. These fans need other fans to tell them to stop or it won’t stop.

Chasicle

Dec 20, 5:50pm

Good point... So why don't you stop it.

Coug

Dec 20, 5:51pm

I wasn't yelling at the refs.

Chasicle

Dec 20, 6:27pm

RE: Got a family banned from attending games at our high school. Well, they got

CougarGuy84

Dec 20, 12:30pm

They should have just thrown water bottles instead, no bans for that

astroman

Dec 20, 12:37pm

Is this a reverse post?

Dan

Dec 20, 12:41pm

How is it that you were sitting next to opposing team's family or them by you?

CameronG

Dec 20, 12:41pm

I hate when parents/fans sit near opposing fans at youth events. Sit behind your

BYUtka

Dec 20, 12:55pm

CBers working on reverses:

Kilgore Trout

Dec 20, 12:41pm

There's nothing worse than people telling others how to fan.

HouseDeeking

Dec 20, 12:43pm

It’s nice when others out themselves as part of the problem with youth sports

Chasicle

Dec 20, 12:48pm

So you were being serious

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 12:50pm

It's not your job to referee the fans

HouseDeeking

Dec 20, 12:53pm

BINGO

Coug

Dec 20, 12:55pm

Things will never change if we sit there and let it happen.

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:04pm

I didn't say to sit there and let it happen

HouseDeeking

Dec 20, 1:50pm

Only cops are allowed to stand up to abuse?

Chasicle

Dec 20, 2:25pm

Fast and loose with the term "abuse"

HouseDeeking

Dec 20, 3:22pm

Harassment? Yelling? Being bad fans? Amy of those better?

Chasicle

Dec 20, 4:24pm

None of those are abuse.

HouseDeeking

Dec 20, 6:47pm

Because it's a kids' game and fans have no right to yell at refs. I defended

Chasicle

Dec 20, 6:53pm

This is dumb. All of you are right/wrong

Belboz

Dec 20, 8:37pm

I actually don't berate anyone, except for crazy karens that think they can tell

HouseDeeking

Dec 20, 11:24pm

Oh ok. I guess there isn’t actually an issue with parents berating refs. Thanks.

Chasicle

Dec 20, 11:56pm

define "berating" one man's beration is another man's greeting card slogan

HouseDeeking

12:02am

Abuse? Lol... So dramatic

Coug

Dec 20, 5:50pm

Yes, you outed yourself quite well

Coug

Dec 20, 12:55pm

I’ve sat next to

DrinkSuin

Dec 20, 12:54pm

Congrats. Be part of the solution for a change. Call out bad behavior as not ok

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:04pm

Ummm, that’s literally what I did in my first post

DrinkSuin

Dec 20, 1:10pm

You sitting there in silence only encourages fans to continue to berate refs.

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:29pm

How can you not see this? They treated someone else poorly because they didn't like

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 1:17pm

You don’t stand there allowing them to steal from you. You stop it from

Chasicle

Dec 20, 1:30pm

Chasicle, champion for refs everywhere!

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 1:57pm

You’re clearly emotional about this, which is why it’s clear you abuse refs

Chasicle

Dec 20, 2:26pm

RE: You’re clearly emotional about this, which is why it’s clear you abuse refs

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 2:29pm

Its ironic. For all the crap the board gives ALUFs for being okay with bad fans

stansburycoug

Dec 20, 1:20pm

No this would be like giving BYU fans grief for allowing Ute fans to be insufferable fans.

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 1:34pm

Its really not. Its like making fun of the unbearable Ute fan behind you

stansburycoug

Dec 20, 2:04pm

Would you do it at RES? What do you think the response would be?

kimdaddy35

Dec 20, 2:17pm

You're right when you say venue matters

stansburycoug

Dec 20, 3:23pm

I don't care if it's game 7 of the NBA Finals. Complaining about officials=dumb

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