The outcome I was striving for was respect from parents. Is that a bad thing?

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Dec 20, 2024
12:49:46pm

Chasicle All-American

If we all just sit there in silence, it’ll just get worse and worse. Man up and say something.

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Chasicle

Bio page: Chasicle
Joined: Mar 1, 2014
Last login: Dec 20, 2024
Total posts: 4,651 (27 FO)

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Got a family banned from attending games at our high school. Well, they got

Chasicle

12:25pm

No offense, but it sounds like you are "that parent" now. Without you there would have been

kimdaddy35

12:29pm

Nah people like that who are getting on the refs need to be pushed back against.

kotacoug

12:32pm

Opposing teams fans are 100% not the people to do that. Sorry I disagree with your premise.

kimdaddy35

12:35pm

I disagree. Everyone, including even if it’s someone on your on side, needs to

kotacoug

12:37pm

So in your opinion, the bigger problem is fans yelling at the refs as opposed to picking fights in the

kimdaddy35

12:39pm

Yes. And it’s not picking fights by standing up to them. If they react in that

Chasicle

12:50pm

A grandma makes a comment about roller derby and you throw it back in a grandma's face

kimdaddy35

12:52pm

Found the insufferable fan sympathizer. Just say you’re worse than these parents

Chasicle

1:03pm

Is this your response? When you resort to trying to mock (like in your story) you might

kimdaddy35

1:13pm

I like how you’re so focused on that part of the story. How about focus on the

Chasicle

1:24pm

You mean the part of the story that started the fight? Why do you think I focus on that?

kimdaddy35

1:31pm

You going to be ok? Are you able to focus on the problem of youth sports and

Chasicle

1:43pm

Again another post that ignores what is going on and tries to throw attention away

kimdaddy35

1:52pm

Projection much?

Chasicle

2:24pm

Projection? LOL.

kimdaddy35

2:28pm

No one said I was picking fights. if a fan was being an yewt at a youth sporting

kotacoug

3:08pm

for freshman girl's basketball where the girls are still learning basic aspects

cwilke1

12:39pm

And the first polite interaction about saying maybe we should not take it so seriously

kimdaddy35

12:48pm

The only one who wanted to fight was the idiot parent who couldn’t help himself

Chasicle

12:52pm

You just wanted to make fun of the grandma

kimdaddy35

12:53pm

Nah. The grandma was right there whining about the calls with the rest.

Chasicle

1:03pm

Sorry I was taught to respect my elders, too bad you were not taught manners.

kimdaddy35

1:07pm

lol. You really are something. It’s clear you’re one of those parents who can’t

Chasicle

1:25pm

Clearly, I think you acted poorly so I must be horrible to refs!

kimdaddy35

1:36pm

We can clearly see it did. Those abusive fans are banned and will either realize

Chasicle

2:23pm

Refs know what they are signing up for.

CougarGuy84

12:38pm

This is a poor excuse for bad behavior.

RobAdams

12:57pm

We’re talking about volunteers or guys making like $20 a game. There is

kotacoug

3:10pm

The outcome I was striving for was respect from parents. Is that a bad thing?

Chasicle

12:49pm

RE: The outcome I was striving for was respect from parents. Is that a bad thing?

Coug

12:54pm

You manned up and mocked a grandma. Congratulations. You caused a scene at a

kimdaddy35

12:58pm

Nah. Mocking her would be getting in her face and doing it. She implied our

Chasicle

1:28pm

What. A. TERRIBLE. Take.

Mufasa

1:47pm

He made a mistake, but constant complaining about officals is obnoxious

Belboz

1:59pm

I agree with everything you said. The difference is that instead of thinking he made a mistake, he quite

kimdaddy35

2:20pm

No. I came to CB to show people that we should stand up to abusive parents. Even

Chasicle

2:25pm

Funny as I have seen some very effective posts doing that. It would have gone something like:

kimdaddy35

2:35pm

You’re too invested in this. Be a better fan.

Chasicle

3:11pm

You be a better person and just mind your own business. Next time get up and move.

Coug

5:41pm

Nope. These fans need other fans to tell them to stop or it won’t stop.

Chasicle

5:50pm

Good point... So why don't you stop it.

Coug

5:51pm

I wasn't yelling at the refs.

Chasicle

6:27pm

RE: Got a family banned from attending games at our high school. Well, they got

CougarGuy84

12:30pm

They should have just thrown water bottles instead, no bans for that

astroman

12:37pm

Is this a reverse post?

Dan

12:41pm

How is it that you were sitting next to opposing team's family or them by you?

CameronG

12:41pm

I hate when parents/fans sit near opposing fans at youth events. Sit behind your

BYUtka

12:55pm

CBers working on reverses:

Kilgore Trout

12:41pm

There's nothing worse than people telling others how to fan.

HouseDeeking

12:43pm

It’s nice when others out themselves as part of the problem with youth sports

Chasicle

12:48pm

So you were being serious

kimdaddy35

12:50pm

It's not your job to referee the fans

HouseDeeking

12:53pm

BINGO

Coug

12:55pm

Things will never change if we sit there and let it happen.

Chasicle

1:04pm

I didn't say to sit there and let it happen

HouseDeeking

1:50pm

Only cops are allowed to stand up to abuse?

Chasicle

2:25pm

Fast and loose with the term "abuse"

HouseDeeking

3:22pm

Harassment? Yelling? Being bad fans? Amy of those better?

Chasicle

4:24pm

None of those are abuse.

HouseDeeking

6:47pm

Because it's a kids' game and fans have no right to yell at refs. I defended

Chasicle

6:53pm

Abuse? Lol... So dramatic

Coug

5:50pm

Yes, you outed yourself quite well

Coug

12:55pm

I’ve sat next to

DrinkSuin

12:54pm

Congrats. Be part of the solution for a change. Call out bad behavior as not ok

Chasicle

1:04pm

Ummm, that’s literally what I did in my first post

DrinkSuin

1:10pm

You sitting there in silence only encourages fans to continue to berate refs.

Chasicle

1:29pm

How can you not see this? They treated someone else poorly because they didn't like

kimdaddy35

1:17pm

You don’t stand there allowing them to steal from you. You stop it from

Chasicle

1:30pm

Chasicle, champion for refs everywhere!

kimdaddy35

1:57pm

You’re clearly emotional about this, which is why it’s clear you abuse refs

Chasicle

2:26pm

RE: You’re clearly emotional about this, which is why it’s clear you abuse refs

kimdaddy35

2:29pm

Its ironic. For all the crap the board gives ALUFs for being okay with bad fans

stansburycoug

1:20pm

No this would be like giving BYU fans grief for allowing Ute fans to be insufferable fans.

kimdaddy35

1:34pm

Its really not. Its like making fun of the unbearable Ute fan behind you

stansburycoug

2:04pm

Would you do it at RES? What do you think the response would be?

kimdaddy35

2:17pm

You're right when you say venue matters

stansburycoug

3:23pm

I don't care if it's game 7 of the NBA Finals. Complaining about officials=dumb

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