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Dec 16, 2024
8:31:40pm
klay Contributor
My second boy did this. We instructed him on table manners for years.
His thing was to lean over his plate and shovel food into his mouth at a rapid fire pace, usually pretty noisily. Barely chewing as he went.

Honestly, nothing helped. Getting on his case didn’t change anything for more than a minute. 5 polite bites later he went back to shoveling food into his face without realizing he was doing it. He also had adenoid issues that made him a bit of a mouth-breather which added to the noise. It caused lots of conflict and hurt his feelings when he was a little guy. I unfortunately got frustrated and overbearing as his dad.

Eventually he got his adenoids out and just kind of grew out of the bad table manners on his own as a teenager. But I still sometimes feel like a jerk for always being on his case.

I am not saying you shouldn’t try to correct it for your son. Just saying don’t be a mean dad like I was.
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