...but just like when kids leave to go to college etc you adjust to their not being there. We have 7 kids, 2 are married living in Utah, 2 are in school in Utah (one's at BYU in Provo and the other is in Nursing school there in Taylorsville). Our youngest has submitted his papers and is hoping to go after Christmas. We have 2 other boys still at home, our oldest who is autistic and we're his legal guardians and the our 2nd youngest who is high functioning autistic and is contemplating a mission (maybe service)