No wife wants her husband to spend 4 hours a day 5 days a week painting figurines or making candles or even watching BYU games.
Imagine you know someone that works 8 to 5 every day (7 to 530 with commute and prep), comes home and eats dinner until 615 and then sit down to watch 4 straight hours of BYU football until 1015 before going directly to bed.
How do you think a wife will feel about that? I would guess not favorable