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Oct 24, 2019
4:55:45pm

HingleMcCringleberry All-American

If he's a friend, go to his house and say you're there for him, don't call

him into your office, as your initial post indicates. That would be unfriendly IMO.

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HingleMcCringleberry

Previous username: dalpal
Bio page: HingleMcCringleberry
Joined: Oct 27, 2010
Last login: Nov 22, 2024
Total posts: 14,834 (98 FO)

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Author

Time

We have obnoxious fans that do dumb

Banjo

10/24/19 3:05pm

Honestly, I bet most of his ward members put an arm around him & wish him well

YSMACK

10/24/19 3:08pm

let's hope that's the case. That's certainly how it should be.

10/24/19 3:12pm

My hope too. Still might be a little uncomfortable for him.

Banjo

10/24/19 3:12pm

If you're his bishop, do you do anything?

buffgato

10/24/19 3:09pm

Yes, you reach out and try your best to support him and his family.

garyfan

10/24/19 3:11pm

I guess I just wonder if, say he's in a YM calling or something

buffgato

10/24/19 3:13pm

Actually a fair point I hadn’t considered. Parents wouldn’t be

Banjo

10/24/19 3:16pm

Good thing they are getting rid of YM . . .

TBabyCougs

10/24/19 3:46pm

I suspect his tweet DM was a symptom of a broader issue he’s dealing with,

garyfan

10/24/19 5:09pm

Hope this isn't serious.

ReggaeCoug

10/24/19 3:28pm

So a guy goes ballistic against a kid, reps the Church horribly and you do......

BleedCougarBlue2

10/24/19 3:55pm

Yes, you do nothing. He should be welcome at church 100% and no "talk" is needed

HingleMcCringleberry

10/24/19 4:04pm

Just asking a question

buffgato

10/24/19 4:15pm

The "talk" I would do would not be to chastise him, but to give him a chance....

BleedCougarBlue2

10/24/19 4:24pm

What is the Bishop his dad?

HingleMcCringleberry

10/24/19 4:32pm

His bishop should be his friend. Get it now?

BleedCougarBlue2

10/24/19 4:51pm

If he's a friend, go to his house and say you're there for him, don't call

HingleMcCringleberry

10/24/19 4:55pm

I really doubt that chatting to this guy in the hall at church is what he (the..

BleedCougarBlue2

10/24/19 4:59pm

Then say "should his friend chat with him?" Why throw the bishop in it?

ReggaeCoug

10/25/19 7:15am

What does ALUF mean?

KG123

10/24/19 3:10pm

Active LDS Ute Fan

Banjo

10/24/19 3:13pm

Active LDS Ute Fan

YSMACK

10/24/19 3:14pm

It does mean Active LDS Ute Fan, but there was more to the origin of that

gwalker

10/24/19 3:19pm

Ahh gotcha. Thanks

KG123

10/24/19 3:20pm

We can't judge a school or a church or a political party based on what one, or

10/24/19 3:15pm

Of course not. The disappointing thing is we will be judged because of him.

YSMACK

10/24/19 3:17pm

As I lawyer I can tell you

gwalker

10/24/19 3:18pm

Oh, I totally agree. In fact, I find the entire

Banjo

10/24/19 3:29pm

Honestly, I hate the knee-jerk "But we have bad fans too" reaction

DazeofBlue

10/24/19 3:33pm

It's because making generalizations is stupid.

Byu_1988

10/24/19 3:40pm

Obviously

DazeofBlue

10/24/19 3:46pm

Not at all a defense of the guy. Just an observation.

Banjo

10/24/19 3:56pm

True, but be honest: we have 1 like this to 99 of them. That's probably not....

BleedCougarBlue2

10/24/19 3:58pm

I agree

Banjo

10/24/19 4:26pm

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