if death was either removed completely (which would also remove our capacity to pass through and be resurrected), or the date was known and planned for. I don't know whether or not that would make it any easier. These moments of sadness and sorrow provide other opportunities for those of us around them to love, support, encourage, and uphold them in these moments of sorrow and loss.
Having said all of this, I am so grateful for the promise of a glorious resurrection and reuniting of us with our loved ones who have passed on before. My heart ached when my father and mother passed away and all I can do is have the faith that I will see them again.
I can guarantee that Sister Hoke (Jaimee) will be watching over her little ones and family and will be very close by, even though they might not see her. Our family's prayers go with them!