The mom example. Taking the power of the word away from those that used it against them and redefining it for themselves.

One reason Polynesians were more accepted in Utah is because of many Utahans belief that Polynesians were actually descendants of Israel and thus in a way, part of God's chosen people and were accepted as part of the priesthood and eligible for creating eternal families in the temple. Basically they were seen in a better light than black people from the get-go when immigrating.