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Nov 5, 2024
11:06:28am

runnincoug Intervention Needed

As your kids get older, you'll rarely be all together at once. Just go.

I'm going to be on sabbatical in Spain most likely while my son stays home to graduate from high school and play his last year of sports. His choice. We thought about delaying a year, but then he'd be on a mission. You just can't win and have to just make your choice and trust there will be other opportunities for the child in the future.

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runnincoug

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Time

Would you take a once in a lifetime family trip without one of your kids?

BYU Fan

10:54am

Yes, we had to do it while kids were on missions or otherwise unavailable. Can't

Japan Coug

10:55am

I was the mission kid who missed the family vacation of a lifetime.

kmcougar

10:59am

RE: I was the mission kid who missed the family vacation of a lifetime.

11:04am

yes

Beggar

10:55am

Part of growing up means you dont get to do what you want to do. Good lesson for

aplusfan

10:56am

I'm in Malta right now without my kids, so. . .yes!

OrsoNero

10:56am

but would you do it with most of your kids and just not one?

ManicBlue

10:57am

Probably. We haven't all gone together, depending.

OrsoNero

11:15am

My once in a lifetime trip would involve no kids.

TLCougar

10:56am

Yep, we've got one coming up with all our young adult kids.It would be 10 times

11:01am

or in-laws

supertux

11:39am

Go.I suspect your son is more concerned about his mission than about family vaca

10:57am

Your son is old enough he should be able to understand the circumstance and why

texbird33

10:58am

Yes, do it. Other opportunites will come up. Don't waste a chance with the

BYUheaven

10:59am

Yes

Cougar-Duck

11:00am

Don't deny your family an opportunity to protect someone's fee-fees

fattycoug

11:00am

Do it. Then when your son gets home take him somewhere nice.

JWin

11:01am

Absolutely. I would and will. From time to time I may pay for my adult children

Ozymandias

11:01am

Yes, of course

Gustav

11:03am

One of my startling lessons learned on my mission was that my family continued

EM_Puma

11:05am

Uh... he went on a mission. Life goes on for those not on a mission. I'm sure he wouldn't care.

11:06am

We took our younger two to Hawaii one year while the older two were in college

CBaass

11:06am

As your kids get older, you'll rarely be all together at once. Just go.

runnincoug

11:06am

This. Just go.

Himni

11:07am

I'll add, just make it up to your son. Take him on a trip with just your wife.

runnincoug

11:32am

Yes, do it

cDog801

11:06am

I wouldn't even hesitate. When you sign up for a mission, you know that's all you're going to do for 2 years. How would

Byron McNertney

11:11am

Your kids are already keeping score. No way to avoid that imo.

RBLegend

11:13am

Absolutely you should go. He'll get over it.

bluecheese

11:13am

Do you want your kid to be a functioning adult or live in your basement forever?

maYbe

11:16am

Depriving the many to try and spare the feelings of one isn't fair.

gangbusters

11:18am

Don't be soft. You did your 2 years, now it's your turn to live your life.

KayakCoug

11:31am

My family moved across the country while I was on my mission. (Thankfully they

Tare

12:21pm

A mission itself is more of a “once in a lifetime trip” than quick Europe vacay

Hiccupless

1:11pm

I get it and understand your position

jxncoog

1:33pm

Believe missions are meant to be a sacrifice. Take the trip & enjoy it. Mission child will get another chance.

Soupie

1:38pm

Absolutely you do it. He's not chained up in his bedroom. He's serving a mission. You don't put your life on hold.

kccougar

2:32pm

Also, he's an adult. If he can't start handling life situations like this, he better start learning how.

kccougar

2:33pm

I certainly wouldn't not go because they couldn't come. If the logistics of

russkiejedi

2:41pm

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