My wife's old dentist boss was informed by a friend at another office that my

Oct 8, 2024
10:28:34am

thewaterboy Truly Addicted User

wife had her resume online (as if that meant she was applying at other places).

Don't mention it to your friend. It's like you're taking opportunities away from people just looking for a better situation.

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Time

Do you tell a client/friend that his key employee applied for a job with me?

BYUfan92

7:04am

She has a right to privacy.

Jdoc

7:06am

Yes, and you have a right to give it to her. Why would you even think about it?

Las Pampas

9:09am

Tell him. Having been in that client's position, it helps him stop spending in

P-Widdy

7:07am

I would not tell him. Don't get involved.

rcbyufan

7:08am

She has no right to privacy, however I’d only tell her employer if they’re a friend, like in your case.

KingDave

7:09am

where will you make the most money long term? what is best for your

bald man

7:20am

and odds are this employee will also leave you when you don't expect it.

bald man

7:21am

I have 0 interest in her for my co. The money from him as a client is minimal,

BYUfan92

7:39am

6 months, and she's not even mentioning this on her resume? This doesn't add up

rcbyufan

7:44am

I'm 1000% sure its her, she lists herself on her resume as a self-employed

BYUfan92

7:49am

Ok, that makes more sense. Well, isn't part of your contract or relationship

bald man

7:46am

I wonder if dropping participation in insurance is what prompted her to look for

BluebloodOR

9:34am

She is the one pushing it and telling him its a good idea - major risk for him

BYUfan92

10:09am

Then you should tell him. She doesn't have a right to privacy and she's leaving

OKchief

10:13am

I’d tell him.

immacougar

7:24am

From ChatGPT

Johnny Vatos

7:32am

RE: Do you tell a client/friend that his key employee applied for a job with me?

Archaea

7:37am

It’s not a legally enforceable expectation,

Jdoc

8:02am

The ethics are unclear, and I value my friends more than an unknown job

Archaea

8:15am

Good point

Jdoc

8:17am

I would tell him.

couldge

7:48am

Seems like it would be poor form to reveal something she hasn’t decided to

MarylandFan

7:53am

Some friend you are.

Archaea

7:54am

I think any potential employer has an ethical obligation to applicants

MarylandFan

8:16am

Not yo those that lie or obfuscate. Employers

Archaea

12:12pm

On balance, if one of my top people was applying to a friends business I'd 100%

BYUfan92

8:00am

You might do that, but other employers might fire that employee.

Jdoc

8:03am

You are overlooking the fact she didn't disclose where she's working.

Archaea

8:16am

Depends on the value of the employee and how easily replaceable they'd be.

Powerbait DPM

9:20am

The issue I see is that is what you would want

MarylandFan

8:10am

I'd ask two questions:

Parkercoug82

8:03am

Most people don’t know employers can see when people are active on indeed

The Dangler

8:20am

Maybe your friend is a bad boss. Can’t blame someone for wanting a change.

Magneto

8:47am

He’s definitely too nice / pretty passive

BYUfan92

9:08am

As someone in your friends/clients position. I'd really appreciate the heads up.

Powerbait DPM

9:19am

I get that you want your staff to feel valuable, but having employees that are "so valuable you can't afford to lose

Clark Addison

9:48am

Well yeah, you can't pigeon hole yourself into a situation like that. There

Powerbait DPM

10:07am

If you were the applicant, would you want your boss to be told?

Ragnar Danneskjold

9:21am

Nope. And thats why its a dilemma - because if I'm in the same position as

BYUfan92

10:12am

I think there are ways to broach the subject without disclosing specific info.

rcbyufan

10:26am

Yeah, your friend already lost his opportunity to make that employee not want to look for another job.

Ragnar Danneskjold

10:40am

If you were the applicant, would lie about where you worked? This applicant is

Archaea

1:41pm

My wife's old dentist boss was informed by a friend at another office that my

thewaterboy

10:28am

Also, the moment your friend knows she is applying at other offices, then he'll

thewaterboy

10:37am

She’s obviously not happy with (pay, boss, job role). Don’t tell your friend. If

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