What you're looking for in a vehicle.
If you want bright and shiny with all the doo-dads and gizmos, you probably want a later year, less reliable brand.
If you want one that lasts, look around and see what's the most prevalent model still on the road from 10-15 years ago. Then, you have to pay a bit more or buy something used.
Just remember, they're going to invent new doo-dads and gizmos next year, but you probably won't be ready to upgrade.