my best friend.
I guarantee neither of them has any expectation that when I die they will still have my same access. Nor do my kids.

I also have seats for my family, we sat various places on the West side before moving to the NEZ. We moved a couple places in the NEZ before settling in our current seats, and yes it is nice knowing the people around us and seeing them each season, but it would also be fun to meet new fans. (Despite you
My two oldest are at BYU, sit in the ROC and look forward to starting families, getting their own tickets and building their own Chapter in our BYU legacy.

It is selfish and privileged to think the seats should be locked down forever because your buddy or this lady want them without doing what everyone else has to do. It blocks out new fans and prevents growth.

If she, or your buddy want to build their own legacy, they need to do that and take ownership of that. If they just want occasional tickets, then getting them through you is great. Nothing wrong with it. One of the perks.