told them as they grew older that if they ever wanted a real game to let me know. I found that they liked the competitiveness and didn't resent me for beating them, but took it as a challenge. As they got into being a teenager and more competitive...I beat them as often as I could until I could do it no longer. They could use all the humbling they could get by that time. I wish I was healthy enough now to still do it. 🙂