and is spending it all on her new husband. Even with a trust and a pre-nup, she commingled everything. She says she wants to leave her kids nothing and spend it all, no matter that my FIL worked very hard to have the wealth to leave for his wife, with the idea that there would be something for his kids.
Tip: if you want to have something left for the kids set it up before you die. Don't trust your wife not to waste it all within 5 years.