Pretty well known rule of thumb for what is "socially acceptable." So, society in general would say he can date a 43 year old, or older, and its socially acceptable. His girlfriend is 24. Young enough to be the daughter of a 43 year old. He was a senior citizen when she was a minor.
Are you attracted to your kids friends? That's gross. Are you attracted to your grandkids friends? That's more gross. That's this situation.