1) it's creepy
2) you're likely a grown man - why do you care about the private lives of two 18 year olds?
3) It encourages the wrong behavior of people to "find stuff out"
4) If this were your son or your daughter would you have the same response?
5) I can assure you that coaches / admin do NOT want the private lives of players being discussed on boards
6) see #1

So yes, it comes with being famous, I get that, but maybe here at BYU we can show a bit more class.