Let’s review this sequence…
OP asks about kids financial situations and two incomes. I respond that my daughter is SAHM and describe her challenges.
You rebut suggesting I am whining. I respond I am not, just describing the situstion
You rebut, knowing nothing about the situation and suggest that I can’t be possibly be stating facts and by doing so imply that no one could possibly be underpaid.
LOL. Carry on. I’m done.