home. I try to remember to do those...load dishwasher, unload dishwasher, take out the garbage, keep my clothes where they belong.

Best thing I ever did for our marriage was to hire someone to come in and deep clean every 2-3 weeks to reset the house to a certain level of cleanliness so it doesn't get overwhelming for her.

She does the rest for the most part.

One think I really dislike that she doesn't mind doing but wishes I would help out more is some of the yard maintenance work (weeds, mulch, etc.)