That's interesting, because I know men who are VPs, CFOs, Presidents, etc... who
play video games. It seems like they're able to be really successful, own homes, have families, be pillars of the community, etc... while still enjoying video games. I also know men who are very successful who watch a lot of sports, which are essentially children's games that grown men play. Women often also don't like men watching sports. It seems to me, that a game being the "domain of boys" whether that's sports or video games, has no bearing on whether the enjoyer of the entertainment is successful or not.