It is easier for boys to get into SOAR than for girls. It sounds like it might be too late, but you can still try.

You will have a better chance of getting into BYU-Hawaii if that is the first choice in your application. It not, you will not be accepted. Too many students transfer away after a year or two. BYU-Hawaii needs students who graduate from BYU-Hawaii. In your application, you can emphasize you want to graduate from BYU-Hawaii.