That doesn’t mean that it was people in cougar board who were victimizing her, but it doesn’t change the fact that she is a victim. A victim of being unfairly singled out for things that many other players do. A victim of death threats. A victim of being inappropriately sexualized. My issue with your comment was that you were belittling her statement, and seemingly refused to acknowledge that she is experiencing any hardships not of her own creation. That is blatantly wrong. That is why I am wasting my time responding. I hope you can see that.