Not drink you shouldn't do so. Then I specifically said that I'd prefer happy, kind people who didn't understand the rules and unknowingly broke the rules, but who feel welcome, to people who feel looked down upon. Didn't condone rule breaking. Rather, I emphasized my opinion of making people feel welcome and at home instead of telling them how not to offend me right out of the gate.
We don't need to argue - I promise we're good.