It's good to know that your misinterpretation of what I said gives you enough information to pronounce me as dumb. To clarify, there is no comparison between my relationship with my wife and my connection to the BYU football coach. However, I think the relationship between a football program and the head coach is a decent comparison to the relationship between a husband and wife, religious aspects aside. The personality, decision making, strengths, weaknesses, and emotion of one directly affect the other. One cannot be successful while the other fails. Also, sadly, the median length of marriage in our society is probably not much better than the median length of a coaches tenure. But, what do I know.. I am, as you so articulately pointed out, "so dumb"