past couple days? I know I have. I can't help but hug my kids more and play with them more. I know I take a lot of things for granted in my life.

I think one reason tragedies like this happen are to help us gain perspective and gratitude for what we have. I know that's probably little if any comfort to those suffering through them, but I think the Russells' tragedy has positively affected many many people already.

I hope they keep getting the love and support they need as the days turn to weeks and months. I know the scars from this will likely run deep, and will need healing well after we all stop thinking of them. I just hope they realize that their family has brought new perspective to this father and plenty more I'm sure.