"burry your head in the sand" comment just because I am not as negative as you and your friends. Guess what - negative people are not the ones who make things better in this world. You see problems where none exist and exaggerate the issues that do exist into program killing catastrophes. Yet the only solutions you offer not actually solutions.
Meanwhile your negative posturing has a real affect on the morale of the players (and coaches) who actually have to do something about it.