independent and not a burden on others.

If your brain goes, your brain goes. But the way people just fall off a cliff due to sedentary lifestyles is a whole another thing… and get to a decent weight which is so much easier in todays world

The difficult decision thing can be mitigated a little bit by being clear on your wishes. It usually doesn’t change anything as families typically make decisions what’s best for themselves and not their loved ones but most of that is driven by guilt. It helps mitigate the guilt if they can say that so and so would never have wanted this if they truly believed it..