I do have my degree but work hour situation is the same as you.

Being a father and provider can be thankless but I think there’s something noble in us quietly going through life taking those hits in terms of stress, hard work, etc so that life is quiet and happy for those we provide for.

That’s how I try to look at it in the rough moments. And when you’re having those moments: realize there’s a bunch of us living pretty similar lives (go Cougs) in a very similar boat.