kick up in our family. I have a very difficult in-law that has done more than plenty of things to insult, offend and hurt feelings numerous times over. My parents have been justified to be offended and create a divide at least two dozen times and yet every time they turn their cheek, swallow their pride and lead by example that family strife is just not the way to go. It’s petty, it’s childish, it’s immature and it’s just plain sad.