adult club and college. If you've never played, it can seem like these refs are a being jerks but that is not the case. During a match you are trying to manage 30 players that seem like they are trying to kill each other playing a game that, sometimes looks like it has no rules. Referees have to set a controlling tone or risk chaos. Players are used to referees speaking to them just like the refs in these clips. They may not always agree but they understand the role of the ref and they typically just let them do their job.