the mattress. Nothing wrong with it they just wanted a new fancy one compatible with a new adjustable frame...

I don't do anything with them where we pool money for the common good. This is the same guy that doesn't contribute to pay his family portion when we take my In Laws out to celebrate birthdays or other significant events. My wife and her other sisters always contribute for their family portion. This guy brings his 4 adult children & SO's doesn't offer a dime...