If someone uses it, they deserve what’s coming to them. Like I said, if someone has the ability to brush it off and walk away, that’s awesome. I respect that a lot. But if someone chooses to punch the guy for saying it, I have no problem at all with that.
If I understand your post correctly, you feel someone retaliating in a physical way is horrible and embraces outrage culture. Shouldn’t we be more upset that people actually still use that word instead of how someone reacts to it??