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Jan 19, 2019
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BYihateU
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RE: Doesn’t matter that much imo. There are loads of non-Christian
Sometimes kids will bring up aspects of the church in counseling sessions and in my opinion you need someone who can understand that.
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In need of parenting ideas...
Phasor
1/18/19 6:35pm
Have you tried taking him to a counseler? It might be worth a try.
Y-Zag
1/18/19 6:40pm
Yes they did. "He saw a counselor for a period of time"
byuluvr
1/18/19 6:49pm
I say counseling.
BYihateU
1/18/19 6:42pm
Echo others.. that’s above any parenting techniques and in the counseling realm
cougfanz
1/18/19 6:47pm
In response to several of you...
Phasor
1/18/19 6:47pm
Try to find one that is openly Christian-based
BYihateU
1/18/19 6:53pm
Doesn’t matter that much imo. There are loads of non-Christian therapists who are great.
spugeddy24
1/18/19 7:56pm
RE: Doesn’t matter that much imo. There are loads of non-Christian
BYihateU
1/19/19 4:42am
In orange cnty la? Friends? Social constructs?Neighborhood? All good?
CarolinaCoug
1/18/19 6:55pm
Friends may be an issue...
Phasor
1/18/19 7:10pm
Toss his butt in the can for awhile.
Bullrider
1/18/19 7:24pm
That’s tough man. Know that you aren’t alone in parenting struggles with teens.
Tonto
1/18/19 6:47pm
He needs to face the legal ramifications of his actions
billyrust
1/18/19 6:47pm
I'd be temped to find a cop to arrest him and take him to jail for a few days.
Chester Copperpot
1/18/19 6:55pm
Yeap!!!!! I’ve dealt with this. Consequences do miracles.
Anti Nephi lehi
1/18/19 6:56pm
Horrible idea. Don't listen to this.
Baron
1/18/19 7:22pm
Tough Love allows for consequences to bring reality to the situation.
Q-grr
1/18/19 7:30pm
Unless you know the system, you could make it so much worse. Will it be on his record? Can it be sealed? What happens
Baron
1/18/19 7:32pm
Great points.
Q-grr
1/18/19 8:05pm
“ Scared Straight” program. Look for it.
Anti Nephi lehi
1/18/19 6:48pm
Type program
Anti Nephi lehi
1/18/19 6:48pm
May i suggest a good read from an old BYU professor?Psychologist/Behaviorist
CarolinaCoug
1/18/19 6:53pm
Stealing from parents is one thing. Stealing from others is much worse. Has he stolen from anyone else?
Baron
1/18/19 7:23pm
He has shoplifted before, but not for a couple years (that we're aware of)
Phasor
1/18/19 7:33pm
I again think counseling and talking to him about what he was buying and why? Ask why he didn't just come to to buy it?
Baron
1/18/19 7:35pm
Make him take a drug test, you can buy them at any pharmacy.
BengalCougar
1/18/19 7:47pm
I would do this immediately
Blue Cougar
1/19/19 1:09am
For all the tough love comments, I'd be a bit careful about going too fare. Kid
fattycoug
1/19/19 2:33am
Honestly I would consult with a law enforcement officer
troutmaster13
1/19/19 5:23am
My wife worked as a counselor for the Anasazi group here in az
USMCdad
1/21/19 8:46am
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