5-20 girlfriends to get them out socially. Guys you can just show up and make friends by talking with other guys about our imaginary friends Lebron James and Tom Brady,
then listening to the girls talk about their dog and the vacation they have planned.
Girls have a harder time doing that, if they are heavy they get treated poorly, if they are cute, they get hounded by guys they do not want to know.
The skills get you the social life you need. I am letting a pro soccer player stay at my house for free so he can get established and bring his family out, just because I admire his skill and think it is pretty cool, so do all my friends.