This isn't hard. If you wanted to be here and played, you are in the circle. I am grateful for basically everyone who puts on the Cougar Blue and plays at BYU. But, if guys do everything they can to leave a team or "quits on the team" then I do not consider them part of the Cougar fold.
I don't hold grudges against them, that is stupid. But, I do not go out of my way to try and support someone who doesn't want to be a Cougar.